N2#feelings#nuance#adjectives#verbs

Expressing Feelings Lesson 2

Master the nuances of expressing third-party emotions and appearances using がる, そう, げ, and っぽい.

Context

Observing Others

Have you ever wanted to describe how someone else is feeling, or describe an impression you get from someone's behavior? In Japanese, we often use specific suffixes to distinguish between our own internal feelings and our observations of others.

Imagine you are watching a child at a park. They are jumping around and smiling. You want to say 'The child looks happy.' You cannot simply say 'The child is happy' (子供はうれしいです) because that implies you know their internal state. Instead, you use grammar that reflects your observation of their external behavior.
Explanation

The Grammar of Observation

We use specific forms to describe states that are visible to the observer.

Adjective-stem+がる//っぽい
  1. 〜がる: Used with i-adjectives to express that someone else is showing signs of a feeling (e.g., 寒がる - to act cold). 2. 〜げ: A literary way to say 'looks like' or 'seems' (e.g., 悲しげ - looking sad). 3. 〜っぽい: Used to describe a tendency or a quality that someone/something exhibits (e.g., 子供っぽい - childish).

Tip

Be careful: 〜がる is used for third parties. Do not use it to describe your own feelings unless you are describing your past self objectively.
Examples

Seeing is Believing

Observe how these suffixes change the nuance of the base adjective.

(おとうと)は寒がっている。

My younger brother looks cold.

おとうとyounger brother寒がるさむがるto act cold

彼女(かのじょ)悲しげ(かなしげ)に話した。

She spoke with a sad look.

彼女かのじょshe悲しげかなしげsad-looking

彼は怒りっぽい(いかりっぽい)性格だ。

He has a short-tempered personality.

怒りっぽいいかりっぽいshort-tempered

Which sentence correctly describes a third party's visible state?

  • 私は寒がります。
  • 彼は寒がっています。
  • 私は寒いです。

〜がる is used for third parties. '彼は寒がっています' means 'He looks cold'.

Usage

Nuance and Register

Choosing the right form depends on whether you are describing a temporary state or a permanent trait.

がる vs っぽい

〜がる

Temporary behavior/state

怖がる (to be scared)

〜っぽい

Inherent tendency/trait

忘れっぽい (forgetful)

Which form is more appropriate for a literary or formal description of someone's appearance?

  • 〜がる
  • 〜げ
  • 〜っぽい

〜げ is a more formal, literary suffix used to describe someone's appearance or demeanor.

Deep dive

Advanced Nuances

Exploring the boundaries of these suffixes.

Exceptions and usage notes

Note that '〜げ' is often used with '〜ない' adjectives (e.g., 楽しげ - looking happy). Also, '〜がる' can be used with 'ほしい' to create 'ほしがる' (to want something, referring to someone else).
Summary

Lesson Recap

You have learned how to use suffixes to describe the feelings and traits of others based on observation.

Remember: use 〜がる for third-party behavior, 〜げ for formal descriptions of appearance, and 〜っぽい for inherent traits or tendencies.
寒がる
さむがるverb
to act cold
悲しげ
かなしげadjective
sad-looking
怒りっぽい
いかりっぽいadjective
short-tempered
忘れっぽい
わすれっぽいadjective
forgetful

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